Back in the 1980's...the sales book that many stockbrokers had on their shelf was, The Art of Selling Intangibles, by LeRoy Gross.(Note: Some of us remember when "stockbroker" was not a pejorative term...before the age of "registered representative", "financial consultant", "wealth manager", etc., etc.) First published in 1985, The Art of Selling Intangibles was chock full of practical selling tips...and held an esteemed position in every stockbroker's library of selling resources.
Today...many of LeRoy Gross' ideas are still relevant. Reading my dog-eared copy the other day, I came across one nugget...regarding the appropriate response to a prospect who says, "Send me something in the mail"...a phrase that a prospect will use after patiently listening over the telephone to a sales presentation from a financial advisor. In Mr. Gross' 20-year-old view, sending "something in the mail" is a worthless exercise...an activity that contributes to the advisors delusion that they are actually moving forward in the sales process.
Of course, Mr. Gross's opinion is till valid today. "Send me something in the mail" is still little more than a brush-off, a convenient vehicle that a sneaky prospect will use to get a salesperson off the phone and out of their hair...without actually having to say the word "No". The real corrosive effect, from the advisor's perspective, is that the advisor remains under the illusion that this person is a bonafide prospect worthy of time and attention...as opposed to a non-prospect who simply lacks the heart/forthrightness to end the discussion.
Here's a wacky thought. The next time that a prospect says, "Send me something in the mail", you respond, "Sure...in fact, I'll send the information special delivery My only request is that you be there at the exact time that the mail is delivered. When does your mail arrive tomorrow? 10 am? Great! You'll get it 10 am tomorrow."
Then...you show up at the prospect's office at 10 am sharp...with the information in your hand...and a postage stamp on your forehead.
See...I told you it was a wacky thought!